After 2 years userdirs and php stll not function correctly [El Capitan]

[Behinder (behinder)]

Maybe nobody maintains this port anymore or maybe nobody notice because internet is full of tutorials using HomeBrew. After some problems with my MAMP I decided to give Apache2.4 a try after several months. And the problems are still the same:

1. Why in 2.4 userdir settings are for /~username syntax? it should be /username since it's preffered behaviour nowadays. In 2.2 it worked without problems.

2. With php7.35 and apache2handler and module properly added in httpd.conf php files are still not properly read from my /~sebastian directory (i have there only index.php file with phpinfo() function and get error empty response)

I am attaching relevant files. APache2 and Php 7.3.5 was fresh install.

And again why the hell which httpd shows the one built-in with system? the same as which php gives me path to macports php, so for httpd it should ALWAYS give precedence for those binary that is default to run